more practical parenting advice...

Here's an interesting recap of a new study of parenting styles and their impact(s) on children. I especially appreciate the affirmation of common sense instincts which suggest that successful parenting takes account of a child's needs and temperament.
http://healthland.time.com/2011/08/09/kids-depression-plummets-when-parents-adapt-to-their-personalities/

How to Land Your Kid in Therapy - The Atlantic

For those of you still contemplating what makes a monstrous mother, some more parenting advice:
How to Land Your Kid in Therapy - The Atlantic

Which words are more important -- "I love you" or "I'm sorry"?

http://www.parentdish.com/2011/05/06/motherhood-moments-love-means-having-to-say-youre-sorry/

Maternal Health Issues

Nicholas Kristof's pieces are always so inspiring -- in this one, he returns to a subject he's written on eloquently before, maternal health. In too many places around the globe, the most dangerous thing a woman can do is become pregnant -- a sobering thought that reminds me to be grateful for the obstetrical care we have access to here in the US.
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/05/05/opinion/05kristof.html

Another Mother of another Ben

I wished I'd read this before our class today -- here's a lovely story/reflection to use as a wrap-up for our semester: a reminder that when we're looking at/assessing/judging other mothers, we're always on the outside looking in. And the view from the inside can be radically different and quite empowering.
 http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2011/05/03/a-perfect-baby/

Our 4-year (and counting!) Experiment

This past weekend, our daughter turned four (!!!), marking four years of parenting for my husband and me -- and four years of thinking maternally and paternally: you know, parentally. As I read "The Country Bunny and the Little Gold Shoes" to her every evening this weekend (and some mornings!), I've found myself thinking about the role that books have played in our parenting. My students asked me if I read all of the parenting books when I was pregnant, and I did read a lot of them -- but really, the ones that have taught me the most have been the ones I've read her: the ones with messages I want her to embrace, the ones with sassy, spunky girls I (mostly) want her to emulate, the ones with mothers I aspire to be for her -- like the Country Bunny. The whole world is contained between the covers of books, it seems...
Happy birthday, Monkey-girl!

Why the "Research Paper" Isn't Working - Inside Higher Ed

We've been talking a bit in class about the research paper that's due in mid-May, and in that context, I found this piece quite interesting: Why the "Research Paper" Isn't Working - Inside Higher Ed